Umkhiqizi kamatilasi ukukhetha okuhle okuthambile noma okuqinile1

Ukulala lapho othile esebenza kahle umatilasi umenzi esetshenziswa ubuthongo obuthambile, abanye abantu babevame ukulala ibhodi lombhede oqinile, hlobo luni lukamatilasi olungcono? Yebo, impendulo ithambile kakhulu, inzima kakhulu yimbi. Ungase ufune ukubuza, lokhu akukuhle, nalokho kubi, yilokho kanye uhlobo olunjani lomatilasi? Okokuqala, ingakwazi ukusekela ngokugcwele umzimba, Ikhanda, ihlombe, ukhalo, u-hip, umlenze) 。 Ukuzizwa okuqondile okwengeziwe mayelana nokufaka, umzimba ngeke uwe phansi kakhulu, ingemuva ayinalutho, njalonjalo. Noma ulale embhedeni, umzimba ungagcina ijika elihlukahlukene lokuphila. Okwesibili, ungahlangana nokuma okuhlukahlukene, ulale ngomhlane wakho ngokulala, ulale kahle ulele ngohlangothi lwakho. Okwesithathu, lalani ndawonye, lowo okhona, ngeke avele azwe ubuhlungu beqolo, Lena cishe indlela yokwahlulela eqondile) 。 Umbhede uthambile kakhulu, uqinile okhalweni, ngeke ukhululeke; Umbhede unzima kakhulu, amahlombe nezinqulu ngaphansi kwamandla kukhulu kakhulu, kuzobe kungakhululekile. Ngakho sazi kanjani uma mattes ukuthi ayahlangabezana yini namaphuzu angenhla? Thenga ngokuqondile. Hhayi nje ukubeka phezulu, nokubeka ukuma okuningi. Ukuma okuningi ulele phezulu hhayi kuphela, futhi kufanele uvumele ulale phansi, ulale futhi. Ungabi namahloni, zama ukulala, kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuhlola umatilasi