Ungaze undwendwele umkhwekazi ogula kakhulu, umkhwekazi, ofa kumatrasi wasentwasahlobo, umfazi ophakanyisiweyo, usisidenge.

Ungaze undwendwele umkhwekazi ogula kakhulu, umkhwekazi, efa kumatrasi entwasahlobo, umfazi uphakanyiswe, ndisisidenge kunye nelali yomyeni wakhe abantu ababini, iimeko ezimbini zentsapho azikho kakuhle, waphuma ukuya emsebenzini kwangethuba, abantu ababini kwezinye iindawo, ngokukodwa baxabisa iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye, ngokuthe ngcembe kwaba indawo izinto, usuku loNyaka oMtsha ukuya ekhaya emva kokuba sitshatile. Ngenxa yedolophu yabo, banokwenza imali, kodwa nje ukondla iintsapho zabo. Ngoko mna nomyeni wam saxubusha, ngoxa sasiselula okanye siphuma sisiya kusebenza iminyaka embalwa ngoku, emva kokuba sinabantwana, emva koko sigoduke siye kupheleka abazali nabantwana. Kunyaka wesithathu womsebenzi, umkhwekazi wayegula, mna nomyeni wam sagqiba ekubeni sigoduke kunye, sinokuvumela abantwana ukuba bakhule nathi, banako ukwenza ukuthanda kukaThixo. Lo mamazala ogulayo u off and on for years, downs, almost every year uya esbhedlele for ten days half a month, noko kathathu ngonyaka, babini qha abantu abatshintshisanayo ngokujonga mna nomyeni wam qho. Nobhuti ababini bomyeni wakhe, a perennial you working outside, umazala qho esibhedlele akakhuphi nesenti. Kwaye omnye ubhuti, ngqo uthi uxakekile, uyaqhawula, uninazala akanguye uxanduva, ungajongi. But my husband always said a disadvantage is a blessing, kwaye kukuhoya abazali babo, this is should do duty, ungaxabani kakhulu nobhuti omdala, umama osesibhedlele, isibhedlele sinesaziso phantsi kogulela ukufa. Amagama amabini ubhuti akakaze afike esbhedlele avakashe, umamazala wathi edanile ngumyeni wakhe, ufuna ugoduka, akakwazi ukufela ngaphandle, isiko lalomzi, ixhego libhubhile kufuneka liwavale amehlo kowabo, kuthe xa kusifa uninazala, ndakhawuleza ndabuyela ekhaya, zange kudlule nesiqingatha seyure umamazala engasekho. Ubuso ngaphambi kokuba uhambe yonke indlela kunye nomyeni wakhe, esalatha kwibhokisi yakhe yokhuni esecaleni kwebhedi, emva komyeni wam kunye nam ndiye ndanyanzeleka ukuba sijongane nomamazala wakhe, kodwa nangeli xesha, abazalwana bakhe ababini bomyeni wakhe kuphela ngomhla wengcwaba ukuba kube kanye, emva koko ngamnye waya kwenza into yakhe kunye nabazalwana ababini emva kokuba bathi, bayazi ukuba umamazala uhlala egula, abanako imali. Kodwa umamazala amadini omngcwabo wemali ukuba abanayo ikomkhulu nawo akhomba kubo, bendinomsindo wokugula kukaninazala kule minyaka idlulileyo, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bahoye imedical ayikakhululi nakanye, ngoku ifile, ndisacinga ngemali, bendingenoba ne penny. Oku kukubona nje, oobhuti babini bokuqala babukele umamazala wakhe yindoda nje eqhelekileyo. Akukho idiphozithi uyagula rhoqo, kukuba, ekugqibeleni, umyeni okanye amasiko umngcwabo imali emva kwam wafumana abazalwana ababini abadala, Ndiyazi ukuba ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe akukho nto. Emva kokuba nomyeni wam sigqibe ilifa likamamazala wakhe, ukubona i-spring mattress ebhedini egumbini, wakhumbula ukuba uninazala wafa uye wambambazela i-spring mattress. Usidenge uhlala emva kokuba mna nomyeni wam sithathe i-mat, uxinzelelo lwebhedi ngamawaka angamashumi amahlanu eedola, ndicinga ukuba le yimali yokulondoloza impilo kamamazala, yindlela yokugcina imali engaka, umyeni thatha le mali esongwayo luthando olunzulu, ngokukrakra ekugqibeleni. (Imifanekiso evela kwi-Intanethi, ayinanto yakwenza, evela kumbhali oqinileyo, nceda ungaphindi ukuprinta ukukopa