Ndakaenda kunombundirwa neimwe nyanzvi yekugumbatira. Hezvino zvazvaita

Ndakawira mumattress yefuro rendangariro pasi.
Amai, Anne Hobson.
Bere rakaumbwa mu50s rakapfeka mamwe matsva --agey music.
Studio yake iri muimba yekurara yepamusoro yeimba yetaundi muEllicott, Maryland, ine mafuta anokosha.
\"Unoda kutanga sei? \" akabvunza ? \". Ndakanga ndisingazivi.
Munhu anotanga sei kumbundira mutorwa?
Pandakanga ndiri muma1980 muBerkeley, shamwari dzakanga dzakarembera pasi, uye kungobata-bata uye kugara-ups kwaiwanzoitika.
Dzimwe nguva vanotungamira pabonde (zvinotungamira kune zvese kutanga mangwanani)
Zvidemba makumi emakore gare gare
Asi kazhinji iPerah.
Nguva refu pamberi pekufamba kwe # MeToo, yakanaka kana yakaipa, ini handiyeuke chero munhu akataura kushushikana zvakanyanya pamusoro pemiganhu.
Ndinogara muWashington manje.
Iri harisi guta rakanaka.
Vanhu vane hanya zvikuru nemiganhu (kunyanya paruzhinji) uye vanowanzo dzivirira kuonana nemaune nevasingazivi kana vavanozivana navo.
Kunyange basa rezvematongerwo enyika risati ratanga, nyanzvi dzeHollywood nenyanzvi dzezvenhau dzisati dzatanga kufamba, vanhu vakanga vazvitonga.
Asi kumbundirwa nenyanzvi, mabasa atinobata ari kuramba achikwira
Tsika yenzara inotaurirwa nemvumo.
Zvinoenderana nemitemo yakatarwa nebato rekumbundira uye webhusaiti yehug, hapana chinhu icho vanhu vaviri vasingabvumirani pamberi.
Tevedza iyo protocol yeCuddlist.
Kwakadzidziswa Anne, ndakava nomukana wokutanga naye. ku-kuziva-iwe kufona.
Panguva iyi, akandikurudzira kuti nditaure naye semutengi kwete semutori wenhau.
Sezvo ndaiva amai vasina murume, vakafungidzira kuti ndakanga ndajaira kutarisira zvakawanda, asi kuti ndaigona kusazvitarisira ndimene zvikuru, uye akandiudza kuti ndingashamiswa namanzwire aunoita kuvapo.
Zvino, kunzwa kukuru kunyara.
Nekushanduka kudiki mumimhanzi, kuti ndaida sei kutanga kurara pafuro, kupfeka zvipfeko zvakasununguka zvemitambo uye majuzi, ndakagumburwa.
"Kutaura chokwadi," ndakamuudza kuti, "Ndinoshuva kuti dai ndawana massage pandakaona tafura yako yemameseji mune imwe kamuri.
Asi ndiko kubiridzira.
\"Kwete, kwete," akadaro.
Hapana nzira isina kururama yekumbundira.
Saka ndakanongedzera nhunha dzegotsi nemuhudyu.
Anne, murapi wemameseji kwenguva refu, akawana tension ndokuitsimbirira mukati akanzwa kufara.
Asi uku ndiko kunyengera kwakakwana.
Dai ndaida kuona kuti chiitiko chekumbundira chaive chii, handaizokwanisa kuitenderedza awa yese.
Ndaifanira kuenda mumvura isina kuedzwa. \"Saka,\" ndakabvunza.
Iye akati: \"Ndeipi chimiro chekumbundirwa chinonyanyozivikanwa? Zvakanaka, ndinofunga wakapfeka ngowani yemutori wenhau izvozvi. \". Hongu uye kwete.
Semutengi anobhadhara, ndinodawo kuziva zvinogoneka muawa yebasa.
Okay, akadaro.
Spoof inonyanya kufarirwa.
\"Zvakanaka,\" ndakadaro.
\"Unoda kuva chipunu chikuru here kana chipunu chidiki? \" akabvunza ? \". Hmm.
Hug inoita kunge inoda sarudzo dzakawanda kubva mukumbundira.
Hazvina kufanana nekuenda kune masseur kana masseur wogara pasi woita kuti nyanzvi ibate.
Zvakawanda zvekunzwa kwakasviba zvekuti handina chokwadi nezvechimiro chechinhu.
Ndakasarudza chipunu chidiki. akapeta kumusana kwangu ndokundimbundira neruoko rwake.
Maminitsi mashoma gare gare, akati, "Ndiri kunzwa sendiri kuda kubata ruoko rwako.
"Ndinofunga zvine musoro, saka ndati hongu.
Kwemusangano wasara, takaedza-
Mushure mehurukuro-
Kumbundirana kwandakaita vaviri kusanganisira kugara ndakamufuratira
Nditenderedze ruoko rwake kusvika panzvimbo yaToby mudzi.
Pamaminetsi makumi mashanu, nyevero inorira, uye mushure memaminitsi gumi, musangano wapera.
Takamboita chinguva tichitaura ndokubva ndamubhadhara ndokuenda.
Ndakati ndichidzokera kuhofisi kwangu, ndakaedza kufunga kuti chii chaizvo chaindinetsa pamusangano uyu.
Kunyange zvazvo ndiine ruzivo rwakaganhurirwa mukumbundirana nenyanzvi, Anne anoratidzika kuva nyanzvi zvikuru pazviri.
Ndiamai. ane muviri wakasununguka uye unovimba.
Inogona kunge iri yakajairika, isiri-
Mutori wenhau mutengi achauya nechishuwo chakanyanya kutariswa (hapana mutori wenhau hat).
Asi handizvo zvandamira.
Ehe.
Tsanangudzo yekumbundirana nenyanzvi haisi yebonde, asi mitemo yekumbundira yakafanana neinodzidziswa kutevedzera nevadzidzi vepakoreji vanhasi mukusangana pabonde.
Pamwe ndiri kudzoka kumashure, asi handidi kubvunzwa.
Kana ndikarara mumaoko emumwe munhu, kungave kumbundikira kana chimwe chinhu, ndinoda kuve nemwero wakati wekuziva uye chivimbo chekuti zvese zvakanaka.
Mukuita zvekumbundirana, nekufamba kwenguva, cudler achaziva zvinoshanda kumutengi uye izvo zvisina basa kwaari, ndakafonera Annie kuti abvunze.
Mhinduro yacho yakaoma.
Neimwe nzira, hongu: sehukama hupi, kumbundirana kunodzokororwa kunobvumira vatori vechikamu kudzidza mutinhimira kubva kune mumwe nemumwe.
Asi kunyange zvakadaro, akati: "Ndichiri kuda kutarisa kune mumwe munhu. . . .
Dzimwe nguva imwe mhando yekubata yakanaka, asi imwe yacho iri nani.
Saka ndakabvunza nguva dzose \"unogona kutarisa muviri wako izvozvi? Nderipi dambudziko rinonyanya kudiwa kugadzirisa, unoita sei nemuviri wako izvozvi? \" Zuva rino richachinja --ku--
Kubva zuva nezuva.
Izvi zvinoshanda kwete kukumbundira chete, asiwo kuhupenyu, akadaro.
\"Tarisiro yangu ndeyekuti vatengi vangu vadzidze kutaura zvavanoda uye zvishuwo zvavo zvazvino kuti kana vabuda vovaka hukama nevamwe ---
Romance kana humwe hushamwari-
Vakadzidza unyanzvi hwokutaura. . . .
Iwe haugone kubvuma chaizvo kana iwe usingazivi zvaunoda.
\"Zvimwe ndiro dambudziko rangu.
Handina kupinda nechido chekuda kumbundira.
Ndakaenda kunoona-uye kutaura pamusoro--
Chii chiri kuitika neizvi.
Ndakanganwa heti yangu pairi