Intombi yakhala yathi ukurhawuzelelwa ngumzimba, umama waphakamisa i-matrasi yasentwasahlobo ecacileyo, into ekhawulezileyo yenza umntu afune ukugabha.

Intombi yakhala yathi ukurhawuzelelwa ngumzimba, umama waphakamisa i-matras yasentwasahlobo ecacileyo, izinto ezikhawulezayo zenza abantu bafune ukulahla usuku lokuzalwa lomntwana ngamnye, umama acinge ngokuba nabantwana be-dribs kunye ne-drabs kwakhona. 'Ukhulelwe ngo-Oktobha, kanye cent mian', amagama asibhozo, mhlawumbi akukho imvakalelo amadoda, kodwa kubafazi, ngokukodwa, uye wafumana ubuncwane umama ngokwenene ubuncinane, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba nzima kangakanani, umzuzu xa ndabona umntwana wazalwa uzive oko konke kufanelekile! Kholelwa ukuba wonke umntwana unethemba lekamva kwikhaya, aphumelele phantsi kononophelo olunyamekileyo lwentsapho, esoyika ingozi encinci. Ngaloo mini, intombi yam yakhala kwaye yabaleka ukuya kurhawuzelelwa, yavula iingubo ezininzi ezibomvu ekujongeni abantwana. Umama wayecinga ukuba yintoni etyiwayo ayidibanisi, kodwa emva kosuku olu-1 ichaphaza elibomvu endaweni yabantwana abaninzi. Ugqirha ufunyanwe njenge-urticaria, kodwa akayazi ingcambu yesifo, unokuvulwa kuphela iyeza elincinci. Kodwa kancinci nje emva konyango, akukho mzimba wentombi ubomvu ngeqhina kwiintsuku ezimbini. Emva koko wadibana nomhlobo kwisitrato, umhlobo wathi intombi yakhe nayo injalo, kamva yafumanisa ukuba ayicocekanga ibhedi. Emva kokuba ebuyele ekhaya, iimatrasi zasentwasahlobo ezivulekileyo, ezifunyenwe ezantsi kwembungu, zifuna ukugabha, ngokukhawuleza wasusa intshulube. Kungcono ukubona abantwana xa intliziyo kamama nayo ikhululekile. Kholelwa ukuba abantu abaninzi baya kudibana nemeko enjalo, intshulube ebizwa ngokuba yikhalane ( A lice) . Kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo ekucoceni emva koko, kunokunciphisa iibhaktheriya ngempumelelo ukunciphisa izifo. Luthini uluvo lwakho ngalo mba? Wamkelekile kwizimvo. Ulwazi oluncinci: umfazi okhulelweyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kufuneka azixabise, alahle imikhwa emibi kunye ne-taboos, kwangethuba ukuya kulala kwaye avuke kwangoko, akulula ixesha elide kwikhompyuter kunye neselfowuni. Usana emva kokuzalwa kwezifo ezininzi zivela kumama, umntwana wayesesiswini sikanina, unina amaninzi emikhwa emibi kwimpembelelo yabo ayikho enkulu, kodwa vumela umntwana ukuba athathe ityala, ngoko ke nceda uhlakulele imikhwa emihle yokuphila xa ukhulelwe, ukuhlolwa kwangaphambi kokubeleka rhoqo, wazala umntwana ophilileyo, enye imbonakaliso yale nto luthando lokwenene usana? Le mifanekiso ingasentla ukuba kukho nakuphi na ukophulwa nceda uqhagamshelane icinyiwe kwinethiwekhi